Dear Toby,
Thank you for your question. I'm afraid that Cuety is an entry level product, and has less options than Cuelux. As the vBuilder is designed for Cuelux, not all options you can set in there will be usable in Cuety.
Cuety control is limited to the parameters you see in the programmer/UI. A way to work around this is to customise your personalities using the vBuilder. This way you can use all the faders that are available in the programmer.
I'm very sorry but the lamp on / lamp off / reset parameters are not usable in Cuety. (They are not even stored in a Cuety personality actually)
If the functionality of Cuety is insufficient, I can only recommend using Cuelux instead.
Greetings,
Bootsy